The Bridal Shower...Uh-oh!

So I know I'm not supposed to be involved with my bridal shower, but who says I have to follow any rules? Both Brad and I have divorced parents that are re-married. That means four moms, plus I know Isabel, my maid of honor, will want to be involved. So how the heck do all these women come together without issues?

I really didn't want to have a traditional shower. I was thinking more about bringing the women of both families together to get to know one another. So how do I do that without pissing someone off? I want to keep it simple and eco-friendly without forcing my views onto them. And If they want to throw me a shower, which I know one or more of them do, how can I say anything at all?

Well, most of all I feel obligated to bring them all together. I know there are many girls that should be included. So I'm thinking my mother-in-law to be, Brad's mom, may want to host us at the clubhouse in her community. It's gorgeous and affordble and not far for anyone to travel on both sides. I will have to ask her what she thinks. I don't think it needs much decoration either so we can save on that! 

So, uh-oh...but hopefully there will be no hair-pulling, fighting, crying, or hurt feelings. And hopefully after all the wedding events have come and gone, this will have brought everyone closer together!!!  xoxox